You are not Special and that is a good thing
The world. Society has told you a lie ever since you were a kid.
“You’re a special boy/girl.”
And let me tell you the truth. You aren’t. No matter how much you believe that you’re one in a million. You aren’t.
There are 1000s of people like you. Who possess the same beliefs and mindset as you.
Who goes through the same problems as you do. Who fight the same demons that you do.
And believing that you’re not special is liberating because if you have a certain problem and someone has already solved it. Then you know you can too.
If someone who has the same situation as you have broken out from that place and is living a better life than you. Then you can too.
So, Stop living in a fiction world where you think you’re the protagonist and you’re so fucking special that no one can even compare to your greatness.
You are not. Rather than learn from the people who are similar to you and had the same experiences as you but are living a good life while you’re making excuses.
Let’s give you an example, I’m a 5 foot 5-inch Indian brown guy. I always thought I was fucking unattractive. I always thought that girls only like tall and white boys. Because that’s what society tells us isn’t it?
Only white people date white people. I don’t know people stereotype the fact that white people are attractive via ads, movies, and music videos and then say that you shouldn’t be racist.
Well, That’s what you’re teaching people. Why won’t they be racist? Leaving racism behind let’s talk about me.
Yes. So, I thought I was unattractive and believed that nobody has the same problems as me. But, I was damn wrong.
I once met a guy, who was 2 years older than me and he is jacked as fuck and is brown-skinned and what I saw astonished me. He was attracting girls like crazy and was dating from abundance.
Here, I was cursing my ethnicity and height for my problems and there was a guy who had the same problems but was attractive to girls. Why?
If he can do the same. Can't I?
That’s the question, I asked myself and learned about game, flirting, banter, how to have fun, how to have interesting conversations, how to make things sexual, and everything one can learn about dating.
And lo and behold, 1 year later. I had 3 girls interested in me. They were attracted to me. I finally had the choice of choosing a person I want to date.
And that’s what changing this mindset that “I’m not special” did. It fucking changed my life for the better and it can do the same for you.
You're not special, Nor am I. If anyone anywhere can do something. You can too. Stop hiding behind the lie that you’re special.
