I understand your perspective Nikita! But the truth is Confidence comes from Competence! Once you know that you are healthy and look good. You'd feel confident in yourself but if you are fat then it's natural that you'd want to lose that fat secretly but you'd show others that you are confident and don't care about their judgement! But in reality, you do. Faking confidence is only a short-term solution. In the long term, becoming Competent is the only answer